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'mso-spacerun: yes'=3E=A0 </SPAN=3EIf you begin to write out your goals for =
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di-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EEver wondered just how a child grows in wisdom, bl=
ossoms into a learning vacuum that takes it all in, seemingly without effort=
, without asking for it=3F Ever wondered =93who taught my child to do that=94=
, or =93where did he hear that from=3F=94<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P cl=
ass=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN lang=3D=
EN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EI remember hearing this comme=
nt; =93You do not have to sit outside in the dark =96 however, if you want t=
o look at the stars, you will find darkness is required=2E Pretty obvious eh=
=3F But, here=92s the thing =96 the stars neither require nor demand you do =
it; they are just there, ready and waiting=2E Same as a piano sits in a room=
, gathering dust=2E It is full of the music of the masters, but in order for=
 such strains to flow from it =96 fingers must strike the keys=2E They must =
be trained fingers, representing endless hours of disciplined dedication=2E =
You don=92t have to practice=2E The piano neither requires nor demands it=2E=
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e is required=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MA=
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font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EA child plays at your feet, growing and learning=2E T=
hat little one has incredible potential, a hidden reservoir of capability an=
d creativity, but in order for those possibilities to be developed, parents =
must take time=85listen, train, encourage, reprove, challenge, support and m=
odel=2E Mums and dads do not have to do any of that=2E The child neither req=
uires nor demands that we do so=2E If, however, we hope to raise secure and =
healthy offspring, those things are required=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E=
<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: justify'=3E<SPAN l=
ang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3ETime spreads itself bef=
ore us, directionless and vacant=2E That time can be filled with meaningful =
activities and personal accomplishments, but in order for that to occur, you=
 must think through a plan and carry it out=2E You do not have to plan or ca=
rry through=2E Time neither requires nor demands it=2E If, however you hope =
to look back over those days, weeks, months, and years and smile at what was=
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style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EWhat is true of the stars, a piano,=
 a child, and the days ahead is especially true of your mind=2E It awaits ab=
sorption=2E It will soak up whatever you feed it: imaginary worries, fears, =
filthy and seductive thoughts, hours of television, and selfish greed=2Eor=2E=
=2E=2E good books, stimulating discussions, learning new skills=2E Light won=
=92t automatically shine upon you, nor will truth silently seep into your he=
ad by means of a rocking-chair osmosis=85effort is required=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D'MARGIN: auto 0cm; TEXT-ALIGN: jus=
tify'=3E<SPAN lang=3DEN-AU style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EHow much=
 more effort should be applied to the raising of our children, the food and =
water we offer them on a daily basis=2E Be it our words, the books we offer =
them, the priorities we place in their life, their surroundings, and of cour=
se their peers=2E All of this will shape<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'http://www=2E=
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ctually=85ultimately coming upon the realisation of =93who is really teachin=
g our children=94=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D=
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di-font-size: 11=2E0pt'=3EIt=92s a big classroom out there; with many teache=
rs=2E Parents pick up your chalk and duster=85class is in!<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</S=
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ill Next Time=85Paul<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3Darttext style=3D=
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nguage: EN-US; mso-bidi-font-family: ' New=3F=3F Courier=3EPaul and his wife=
 are the Children=92s Ministry Coordinators for the Goodlife <o:p=3E</o:p=3E=
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en aged two,=A0ten and=A0thirteen years=2E Paul is an active surfer and a fa=
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uage: EN-AU'=3E<FONT size=3D2=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana=3EThe incredible impact=
 of a man on His family is the message underlying Gary=92s book he co-author=
ed with John Trent, called the <B=3E<I=3E<SPAN style=3D'COLOR: #333399'=3EHi=
dden Value of Man=2E<o:p=3E</o:p=3E</SPAN=3E</I=3E</B=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</=
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the people who fought in World War II or in Desert Storm, and they=92ll tell=
 you they had an overall plan that was clearly set before them and an unmist=
akable spirit of teamwork in accomplishing their goals=2E In one case the go=
al was finishing a fight with Hitler and Hirohito that had been brought to A=
lliance soil, and the other was joining with the world to drive out a madman=
 out of tiny Kuwait=2E Those men and women, with clear goals and close knit =
teams, won in a mighty way=2E And while no less valiant, those who fought in=
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the level of fulfilment you could unless you have a clear direction=2E The a=
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drawn to a man who provides loving leadership but resists one who makes self=
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the invitation and pass up a chance to pitch in the summer classic=2E Why=3F=
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R=3E<BR=3EThere are such men who are recognized for wanting to be successful=
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s: seeing your children at any time and participating in the daily happening=
s of their lives=2E For many single dads, there's nothing you wouldn't give =
to have free access to your children=2E You must look at the men out there w=
ho do live with their children-but aren't really involved in their lives-and=
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s only been made worse by the unfortunate legacy associated with single fath=
ers=2E Those men who are irresponsible and inconsistent with their kids, who=
 are bitter and unforgiving toward their ex-wives, and who deserve the term =
'Deadbeat Dad' have helped to create an atmosphere of distrust toward all si=
ngle fathers=2E No matter how committed you may be to your children, you'd b=
e wise to realize from the beginning that it's going to take time to earn ba=
ck the trust that other men have squandered, whether you're dealing with jud=
ges, social workers, or ex-wives=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EDivorce naturally brings dis=
trust between a man and woman=2E But even though she's no longer your legal =
spouse, she's still your children's mother=2E Your kids' sense of confusion =
and insecurity will be minimized by a civil, cooperative relationship betwee=
n their parents=2E <BR=3E<BR=3E<B=3E'3-LEGGED TABLES'</B=3E <BR=3E<BR=3ETher=
e's a simple plan for effective fathering which we call the <I=3EI-CANs:</I=3E=
 Involvement, Consistency, Awareness, and Nurturance=2E Together they encomp=
ass everything that strong fathers do=2E For a divorced or long-distance dad=
, the problem of no access has placed you at a disadvantage=2E How can you p=
ossibly be highly involved in your kids' lives=3F <BR=3E<BR=3EA four-legged =
table is sturdy-much more so than one with three legs or two=2E In the same =
way, the four I-CANs make for sturdy, confident fathering=2E But if your sit=
uation has taken you away from your kids, losing that one leg (Involvement) =
may cause your 'table' to wobble or even collapse=2E That's no reason to giv=
e up; it's a call to work even harder to bolster the other three legs-Consis=
tency, Awareness and Nurturance=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EWork especially hard on <I=3E=
consistency</I=3E-be regular and predictable in your emotions, your schedule=
, and in keeping promises=2E Your consistency will be most apparent in commu=
nication, support payments, and being prompt and reliable during visitation=2E=
 Maintain an <I=3Eawareness:</I=3E get feedback as often as you can about yo=
ur children=2E Talk to teachers and coaches, and keep track of each child's =
individual needs and concerns=2E Make sure you physically <I=3Enurture</I=3E=
 them when you're with them, but also do it verbally as often as you can=2E =
Instead of being lavish with new toys or other gifts, shower them with displ=
ays and words of affection=2E Affirm them for who they are and for what they=
 were created to be=2E <BR=3E<BR=3E<B=3EYOU CAN'T MAKE UP FOR LOST TIME</B=3E=
 <BR=3E<BR=3EMaybe you're just beginning to realize the power and the reward=
s of being a good father=2E Maybe you feel you've let them down in the past=2E=
 It happens to every dad, and it's natural to want to make it up to them som=
ehow=2E That's a good instinct to have=2E Unfortunately, it's easy to channe=
l that healthy resolve into wild extravaganzas with your kids to try to make=
 things right=2E <BR=3E<BR=3ESo maybe you take them to baseball games and am=
usement parks, and load them down with pennants, stuffed animals, junk food =
and a lot of confusion=2E Kids love these activities, but such 'blow-outs' a=
re only one side of a huge pendulum swing=2E A month of not hearing from the=
ir father and then <I=3EPOW=2E</I=3E It can really shake kids up=2E <BR=3E<B=
R=3EAll children need <I=3Eregular</I=3E and <I=3Epredictable</I=3E contact =
with their father (Consistency!)=2E An encouraging phone call once a week is=
 more beneficial to them than four trips to Disney World strewn throughout t=
he year=2E And think of your child's mother: it's hard to bring a child back=
 down to earth after a week with dad filled with amusement parks and Pizza H=
ut=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EWhat do you want your child to remember about your relatio=
nship during these years=3F A roller coaster ride=3F A grand slam home run=3F=
 Or, would you rather have him remember many times with you, and none of the=
m really stick out in his mind because the events themselves weren't importa=
nt=2E He simply cherished the chance to spend time getting to know his dad=2E=
 <BR=3E<BR=3EHow would your kids define fatherhood=3F As a series of erratic=
, confusing phone calls=3F Broken promises=3F What Mu<IMG hspace=3D3 src=3D'=
http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fphone=
%20call%201%20200=2Ejpg' align=3Dright vspace=3D3 border=3D0=3Em mutters abo=
ut under her breath=3F They desperately need you to redefine fatherhood for =
them, because someday they may either become a dad or be married to one, and=
 they'll think of the influential men in their lives=2E If you've done your =
best to stay involved in their lives, they'll think of you=2E And if you've =
been faithful and made the most of a tough situation, they'll have a wealth =
of memories which will bring confidence and strength as they grow up, marry =
and bring up their own children=2E<BR=3E<EM=3E=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=
=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F=5F</EM=3E</FONT=
=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P class=3DMsoNormal style=3D'MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt=
'=3E<SPAN style=3D'mso-bidi-font-size: 10=2E0pt'=3E<FONT face=3DVerdana size=
=3D2=3EDr=2E Ken R=2E Cranfield is a research scholar specializing in the ar=
ea of fatherhood and the history of the family=2E He serves as president of =
the Kansas City-based National Center for Fathering - a non-profit education=
 and research center dedicated to inspiring and equipping men to be responsi=
ble fathers=2E <BR=3EVisit <A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5F=
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op'=3EBack to top</a=3E</font=3E</div=3E<br=3E<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquo=
te=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' now=
rap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fat=
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e89-10th May, 2004=5Fschool prayer=2Ebmp' align=3Dleft=3E</div=3E <P align=3D=
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10' FAMILY=3D'SANSSERIF'=3E<STRONG=3EAre Australian Schools heading in the s=
ame direction </STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P align=3Dcenter=3E=
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those in the=A0USA=3F</STRONG=3E</FONT=3E</FONT=3E</SPAN=3E</P=3E<P=3E<SPAN =
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PTSIZE=3D'12' FAMILY=3D'SANSSERIF'=3E<B=3ENow I sit me down in school <BR=3E=
Where praying is against the rule <BR=3EFor this great nation under God <BR=3E=
Finds mention of Him very odd=2E <BR=3EIf Scripture now the class recites, <=
BR=3EIt violates the Bill of Rights=2E <BR=3EAnd anytime my head I bow <BR=3E=
Becomes a Federal matter now=2E=A0<BR=3E</FONT=3E<FONT lang=3D0 style=3D'BAC=
KGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff' face=3DVerdana color=3D#000000 size=3D3 BACK=3D'#fff=
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fffff' PTSIZE=3D'12' FAMILY=3D'SANSSERIF'=3E</B=3E<BR=3E<B=3EOur hair can be=
 purple, orange or green, <BR=3EThat's no offense; it's a freedom scene=2E <=
BR=3EThe law is specific, the law is precise=2E <BR=3EPrayers spoken aloud a=
re a serious vice=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EFor praying in a public hall <BR=3EMight of=
fend someone with no faith at all <BR=3EIn silence alone we must meditate, <=
BR=3EGod's name is prohibited by the state=2E=A0<BR=3E<BR=3E</B=3E<IMG hspac=
e=3D0 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fa=
thers=5Fbaby%202=2Ejpg' align=3DabsMiddle border=3D0=3E<BR=3E<BR=3E<B=3EWe'r=
e allowed to cuss and dress like freaks, <BR=3EAnd pierce our noses, tongues=
 and cheeks=2E <BR=3EThey've outlawed guns, but FIRST the Bible <BR=3ETo quo=
te the Good Book makes me liable=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EWe can elect a pregnant Seni=
or Queen, <BR=3EAnd the 'unwed daddy,' our Senior King=2E <BR=3EIt's 'inappr=
opriate' to teach right from wrong, <BR=3EWe're taught that such 'judgments'=
 do not belong=2E <BR=3E<BR=3EWe can get our condoms and birth controls, <BR=
=3EStudy witchcraft, vampires and totem poles=2E <BR=3EBut the Ten Commandme=
nts are not allowed, <BR=3ENo word of God must reach this crowd=2E <BR=3EIt'=
s scary here I must confess, <BR=3EWhen chaos reigns the school's a mess=2E =
<BR=3ESo, Lord, this silent plea I make: <BR=3EShould I be shot; My soul ple=
ase take! <BR=3EAmen=A0<IMG hspace=3D0 src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau=
/email=5Fblast/client=5Fimages/fathers=5Fbaby%203=2Ejpg' align=3Dmiddle bord=
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<p=3E</p=3E</font=3E</blockquote=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 heigh=
t=3D13 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' nowrap=3E<img src=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2E=
au/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/template1/Generic/banner=2Ejpg' width=3D5=
95=3E</td=3E</tr=3E<tr=3E<td width=3D578 height=3D25 bgcolor=3D'#ffffff' bac=
kground=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2Ecom=2Eau/email=5Fblast/templates/fathers/te=
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=3E</a=3E<b=3EThought for the Week</b=3E</font=3E<font face=3D'verdana' size=
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</div=3E <FONT face=3DVerdana size=3D2=3E<P=3EThere is no doubt families=A0w=
ill feature heaviliy in the election=2E Another sweetener is coming in Tuesd=
ays budget as an extract from Steve Lewis's Australian article states:</P=3E=
<P=3E<EM=3E'Ahead of next Tuesday's budget, the leaked cabinet documents - o=
btained by The Australian - show the Prime Minister's work and family bluepr=
int includes a package of childcare measures and promotion of 'family-friend=
ly workplaces'=2E</EM=3E</P=3E<P=3E<EM=3EAlso identified by Mr Howard as wor=
thwhile measures are: after-school activities to tackle childhood obesity; p=
laygroups to provide 'social connection' and parental support; and pilot pro=
grams to help teenagers=2E </EM=3E</P=3E<P=3E<A href=3D'http://www=2Ebosweb=2E=
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